Here is the link to the sermon notes: Living with the Weak, the Strong, and Even with our Enemies. In those sermon notes you will find a link to more on the story I used from the Rwanda mother. And at the end of the sermon notes are links to the Presentation File and to the audio file of the first time I preached it.
Within this you may recall that I unpacked the idea that acts of love are either acts of work or acts of courage. These concepts came from The Road Less Traveled by M. Scott Peck. For more on this just click on Acts of Love. As it turns out, this is one of several resources that I have packaged up in two places:
Advice for Couples is a set of resources designed for couples just starting into a dating relationship as well as those who have been married for many years.
Premarriage Counseling is a set of resources I offer to pastors and people who do premarriage counseling.
You'll find many of the same resources in both sets, but there are some unique to each. If improving your romantic relationships is important in this season of life, I think you will find some helpful material in these sets.